Tuesday, July 30, 2019

Preorder Womanish: An Anthology

You will receive a free Slay Pray Journal with your purchase. Excerpt from my story, ON BEING MARRIED We Get Who We Marry I know that sounds cryptic but it’s the entire truth. If we date a person we allow to cheat, it’s very likely they will cheat within the marriage. Taking vows does not change a person’s nature or actions. That takes personal decisions and maturity. More importantly, if you overlooked the cheating or gambling or poor spending habits while dating, guess what, the expectation is for you to continue overlooking the habits. Standing in front of the preacher, family and friends does not change people. Nor does great sex, cooking or having children together. We get who we marry. 

This isn’t to say people don’t ever change, it is to say we cannot make people change or be different. Jumping brooms in tuxedos and gowns are rituals, not change agents. Change comes after the person decides through, faith, conviction, maturity or because they must. We can’t love people into what we want them to be. 
More hearts are broken because we feel we can marry and love a person into doing better and being faithful or even something as simple as kind. I have witnessed so many marriages end because unrealistic expectations weren’t met. I recall a conversation. 
“Why did he marry me if he wanted to have sex with other women?” I was asked and the young woman looked and sounded so earnest. I sat forward, my eyes, meeting hers. 
“Did he have sex with other women while you dated?” She squirmed a bit but didn’t look away. 
“Yes, but we weren’t married.” 
“Marriage doesn’t change people, sweetie. If you allowed it while dating, then it’s likely he feels you’re okay with it.” 

Tuesday, June 18, 2019

EBook Cover Design

Ebook cover designs are $35 to $40 dollars depending on difficulty and if I provide the image. Below are cover samples. The payments are made via PayPal and payable upon agreement.

Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Supporting #JustLOVEMinistry

#JUSTLOVEMINISTRY supports youth through books, journals and workshop. There is also a woman and girl centric component supporting healing through journaling. #JUSTLOVEMINISTRY is subsidiary of Honorable MENCHAN Media L.L.C. EIN: 83-4662218

Saturday, September 22, 2018

Pray Slay Work Tshirt

Black Pray Slay Work

Thursday, September 6, 2018

Just LOVE Kids Journal

Get a journal for your kids. Allow them to communicate through writing. They will also receive color pencils with their 50 page journal. Proceeds purchase journals for others. #JustLOVE

Thursday, July 12, 2018

Praying. Believing and Receiving Tshirts

Praying. Believing and Receiving